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Join Date: Sep 2010
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Are you stressed?
* Do you have ongoing bad mood and you feel like the whole world is your enemy? * Do you feel under tremendous pressure that is hardly bearable? * Do you hear your family and friends complaining of the bad treatment they receive from you? It is now time to act. How? Look at the following tips: 1. Learn to say no. Sometimes we feel overwhelmed and stressed because we take on everything people ask from us. Be selective and think over what is what you really want to take on. 2. Express your needs. How often does it happen that we are angry that things don't happen the way we want. And then we realise that we did not even tell what or how we want. Don't be shy, tell to others your needs and wants. 3. Relax. Find out what helps you relaxing. It could be yoga or meditation, breathing or massage for you, everyone has different methods for this. 4. Give yourself a break. How? Go away for the weekend to somewhere nice, treat yourself to a bath, a nice film or candlelight dinner. Decorate your home with flowers, read a good book in a park. The number of possibilities is illimited. 5. Make time for your hobbies. Sometimes focussing on one matter contributes to having a high stress level. Put aside some time for your hobbies and see how this will fill you with energy again. 6. Talk to people. Surround yourself with positive people, talk to them, or just listen to them. They might inspire you or help you out, even if just as a sounding board. 7. Give out your feelings. Find a way to express your feelings. Talk to others or write a diary or just hit your pillow. 8. Prioritize. When you are overwhelmed with lots of things on your to-do list, find out what is important and urgent and deal with those things first. 9. Keep to a regular schedule. Habits can help you reduce your stress level. 10. Have a constructive self-talk to yourself. Don't talk negatively of yourself and stop with negative beliefs like "I am not worth anything", "Even for this job I was rejected" etc. 11. Do some sports. Sports are a very good way of decompressing yourself, you can use the energy here that you would spend on dealing with your stress for other purposes. And it is also healthy! 12. Eat healthy food. Make sure your body and mind receives what it is ought to receive and that it has the right nutritive intake. 13. Ask yourself: is it really worth? Is the subject really worth upsetting yourself or stressing you? Will stress help you? Probably not, so why do it? 14. Get professional help. Talk to your coach or therapist to help you move out from your negative mood. 15. Take note of positives. Even if you feel you have the worst day of your life, there is always something positive happening as well. Make a list of positives, even if just small and remind yourself of these rather than on negative outcomes. ____________________ Last edited by Crashdown mommy; 10-05-2010 at 03:49 PM. |
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Join Date: Oct 2010
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Before few weeks i am facing out the problem of the stress,and one of relative told me that exercise is the best to get from stress but personally do not think that would really helpful to me. But i dont know but I have tried it once when I felt I could cry so much, I packed my things and went swimming in local swimming pool. About an hour of vigorous swimming, I felt empty, quiet and calm.
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Stress. It is an on-going addition to my life.
Honestly, unless you drop everything electronic and every piece of paper concerning other parts of your life, I truly think it is impossible to avoid stress. And when do we as Americans ever....ever, leave our cell phones behind? Work is a big stress in my life. Right now I have a job, it's not something I plan on pursuing as a career. That alone makes it hard to enjoy it sometimes. My higher goal, my career, is where i'm constantly reaching to. There are so many people are my job - 95% are females. I'm the get-along-with-everyone girl as always, but boy, besides me, it seems like no one gets along with anyone. There's constantly he said - she said in my workplace. I try to avoid it, but being friends with everyone means hearing everything. And the key is to listen but don't respond - responding means getting thrown into the drama. Then my home life is enjoyable, but yes, sometimes stressful. The babies are 2,3, and 7. Toddlers seem to do things they want, not how you want them too. It's funny and sweet, but sometimes I want to pull my hair out for just five minutes of quite time to read a chapter or watch a tv show. It's worth it though. Though my life is stressful at times, it is so completely worth it for the goals I will hopefully soon acquire. So what is my stress relief for all this? At the moment, it is watching two episodes of my current favorite show at the night end, The Good Wife. It's something just for me. After that, I will read a chapter of a book [currently Eat, Pray, Love], and then write an entry in my journal. The night end is always so relaxing, I have to force myself to go to sleep! A bath would also be relaxing, but I don't think I've had a bath in over a year. I always opt out and do a shower, and even if I did choose a bath, I would have to shower afterward [sitting in water and not rinsing off? no]. Stress. It's inevitable.
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Join Date: Dec 2010
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Some ways for releasing stress:-
1) Talk with people. Surround yourself with positive people, talk with them or just listen. They can inspire you or help you. 2) Make sure your mind and your body becomes what it should receive, and he has the right nutrients intake. 3) Do regular Exercise. 4) Take a long walk regularly. |
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Join Date: Dec 2010
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Tips to remove stress
I would suggest to perform meditation to relax your mind at least few minutes. Try to be as much happy as you can. Think positive and be around those people that supply positive vibes. Manage time properly. Have some hours alone. Get along with your loved ones and friends.
Watch comedy movies that will release some tension and help you relax. Try these simple steps and you will surely benefit. And remember health is wealth. Money is important but not more than health. |
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Join Date: Dec 2010
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A lot of walking, yoga is the best way to manage or release pressure. It focuses on breathing techniques, practice with the spirit of the universe and psychological connection. If this option seems interesting to you, I suggest you do is to learn the principles and decide whether to give you some research.
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Join Date: Dec 2010
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Ways to Release Stress
Yoga and exercise Learn to say no Express your needs Take note of positives Get professional help Eat healthy food Do some sports Have a constructive self-talk to yourself Keep to a regular schedule Prioritize Give out your feelings Talk to people Make time for your hobbie Give yourself a break Relax |
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Join Date: Dec 2010
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15 Ways To Release Stress are as bellows;-
1.Express your needs. How often is that we are angry that things did not go as we wish. And then we realize that not even say why or how we want. Do not be shy, talk to your other needs and desires. 2.Relax. Find out what aid relaxation. It could be yoga or meditation, breathing, or massage for you, everything is different methods to do so. 3.Keep a regular schedule. Habits can help reduce your stress level. 4.Playing sports. Sport is a great way to relieve, you can use the energy here that you devote to dealing with stress for other purposes. 5.Eat healthy foods. Make sure your body and mind what it is and should receive adequate nutritional intake. |
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Join Date: Jan 2011
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To begin with, traveling through the calm clouds Pictures to relieve stress. Click on the left of the window of peace, and preview, if the flight will help you know how in silence for a moment and strain relief in a hurry. Therefore, the purpose of image processing and breathe slowly through your nose, and is willing to put aside the stress.
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